{"id":772,"date":"2020-06-11T14:08:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T21:08:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=772"},"modified":"2020-06-11T14:24:46","modified_gmt":"2020-06-11T21:24:46","slug":"goodbye-specifically","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=772","title":{"rendered":"Goodbye, Specifically"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Check your weekly announcements<br>In your email inbox this morning<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friday, June 12, 10am<br>A Social Justice Webinar, \u201cWhirlwind and Fire:&nbsp;&nbsp;Listening to the Spirit of the Moment\u201d<br>Co-sponsored by our UUCLB Social Justice Council, LA Voice, and PICO California<br>Featuring Rev. Dr. William Barber<br>The event is described as \u201ca morning of reflection, prayer, music and \u2013 most importantly \u2013 calls to action in celebration of Black Lives.&#8221;<br>You need to register for the event<br>The link is in the announcement<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Saturday, June 13, 9am \u2013 to noon<br>Physically Distant Work Party<br>Please find Elmer Taylor at the church he\u2019ll find something for you to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunday Worship, 10am<br>RE Sunday, Naomi Yoshida<br>And the RE Committee<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunday, 11:30 am<br>Racial Justice Workshop<br>What will we do as a faith community about the systemic racism in U.S. society?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Small Group Ministry (SGM)<br>Deadline to sign up is June 15<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This will be the last week that I do these messages<br>I will give my last message on Saturday, 1pm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am still your minister through June 30<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Next week<br>I\u2019ll attend the Board meeting<br>I\u2019ll attend the Pastoral Care meeting<br>I\u2019ll lead the weekly staff meeting<br>I have a sermon to write for June 21<br>And I\u2019ll working on preparing communication for Lissa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">June 21, is my last day preaching to you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then for the last week of the month<br>I will participate in GA and Ministry Days activities<br>I will finish cleaning out my office<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I\u2019m definitely in the space of <br>checking off the list of<br>The last time I\u2019ll do that.<br>My last worship team meeting<br>Yesterday morning I had my last meeting with the 70+ group<br>Last evening I had my last meeting with the Personnel Committee<br>And I was really gratified that at all three of those meetings<br>The three groups surprised me<br>By taking some deliberate time<br>To reflect on the interim ministry time we had been through<br>And to share stories<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some of the stories were personal stories about me and my work<br>And I appreciate that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But we also just told stories about the work we shared together<br>The life of the church over the last two and a half years<br>What we did<br>What we\u2019ve been through<br>Successes<br>Learnings<br>Tough times that we laugh about now<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s two things that I like about what happened in those meetings<br>And that I think are good rules for making a good, goodbye<br>In all the times and ways we need to say goodbye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First we said \u201cgoodbye\u201d<br>We didn\u2019t say \u201csee ya\u201d<br>We acknowledged that this is a real ending<br>We didn\u2019t pretend that this month\u2019s committee meeting is like all the others<br>We didn\u2019t ignore the ending<br>We attended to the emotional and spiritual work of leave-taking<br>Even though that can sometimes be painful, or uncomfortable<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unless you really make an ending with an old way of being<br>You cannot begin a new way of being<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And second, we were specific<br>We said specifically what we valued about each other<br>Not a general, \u201cit\u2019s been great!\u201d<br>But I like this<br>I admire that<br>I remember this<br>I learned this<br>I\u2019m going to take this<br>Specific thing<br>With me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While we have still a few more weeks to finish this interim<br>I encourage you to not miss this opportunity<br>To say goodbye<br>You don\u2019t have to do that with me<br>Necessarily<br>But say goodbye to the interim<br>Say goodbye to this time\u00a0<br>In the history of this church<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">See you Tuesday, 1pm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Check your weekly announcementsIn your email inbox this morning Friday, June 12, 10amA Social Justice Webinar, \u201cWhirlwind and Fire:&nbsp;&nbsp;Listening to&hellip; 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