{"id":758,"date":"2020-06-09T13:17:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-09T20:17:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=758"},"modified":"2020-06-10T23:41:43","modified_gmt":"2020-06-11T06:41:43","slug":"hold-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=758","title":{"rendered":"Storytelling"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wednesday, 70+group<br>Meets at 11:30am<br>This week\u2019s theme is \u201cfarewells\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This Sunday is our RE Sunday<br>Our Religious Education Director, Naomi Yoshida<br>And the RE Committee<br>Are putting that together.<br>Celebration of our Children\u2019s Religious Education program<br>For the last year<br>Including a bridging ceremony for two of our youth<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two other announcements for this weekend<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After worship this Sunday, June 14th 11:30 am &#8211; 1:30 pm<br>Racial Justice Workshop via ZOOM<br>What will we do as a faith community about the systemic racism in U.S. society?<br>Let&#8217;s gather to talk about our commitment to racial justice and how we will manifest this in our lives, our congregation, and our community.<br>There\u2019s also a google group you can join<br>If you want to discuss<br>Send an Email to\u00a0<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"mailto:UUCLBracialjustice@gmail.com\" target=\"_blank\">UUCLBracialjustice@gmail.com<\/a>\u00a0to be added to the group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Small Group Ministry (SGM)<br>a program which deepens members\u2019 and friends\u2019 experiences of \u201cchurch\u201d through their participation in lay led small groups.\u00a0<br>UUCLB\u2019s SGM Summer Zoom Edition includes six groups\u00a0<br>that will meet every other week\u00a0<br>with meetings lasting approximately 1-1\/4 hours so as to avoid \u201cZoom fatigue.\u201d\u00a0<br>There\u2019s a meeting for every day of the week except Monday<br>Morning, afternoon, and evening times are available<br>More information is available in your weekly email announcements<br>Which will be in your email inbox this Thursday<br>You must sign up by June 15<br>Some of the groups are filling up<br>So please include a request for a 1<sup>st<\/sup>\u00a0choice<br>And a second choice<br>And if you want to enroll right now<br>Send an email to\u00a0<br><a href=\"mailto:sgm@uuclb.org\">smallgroupministry@uuclb.org<\/a>\u00a0with your 1st and 2nd choice and telephone number\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This will be the last week that I do these messages<br>I will give my last message on Saturday, 1pm<br>I need to turn my attention to some other closing business<br>And I need to start my leave-taking<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The week of the 15<sup>th<\/sup><br>I\u2019ll attend the Board meeting<br>I\u2019ll attend the Pastoral Care meeting<br>I\u2019ll lead the weekly staff meeting<br>I have a sermon to write for June 21<br>And I\u2019ll finish the communication I\u2019m preparing for Lissa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">June 21, is my last day preaching to you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then for the last week of the month<br>I will participate in some of the GA and Ministry Days activities<br>I will finish cleaning out my office<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So we are really coming to the end now<br>And thinking about making an end<br>I\u2019m thinking about what we accomplish during a Memorial Service<br>How healing, and helpful it is,\u00a0<br>To make a thoughtful, considerate end<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The major part of a Memorial Service<br>Is storytelling<br>Sharing our stories<br>Sharing our memories<br>And in particular,<br>There\u2019s an element of the story-telling<br>That has to do with the deliberate<br>Framing of the story<br>In a way that we can hold on to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m thinking about clearing out my office<br>And how there are a few objects I will hold on to<br>As symbols of our time together<br>How I will let just one or two things<br>Move with me into the future<br>And how most will be left in the past<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At a memorial service, we know<br>We can\u2019t hold on to the fullness of a life<br>And this is true of any experience<br>Even a short experience<br>It never takes as long to describe some fun thing you did<br>To a friend<br>As it did to do the thing<br>Every experience becomes a short story<br>Sometimes just a sentence<br>Or an image<br>And certainly a long one experience<br>Like a life<br>Or a two-and a half year interim<br>Cannot be contained in its wholeness<br>So we engage in an act of interpretation<br>Or meaning-making<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not so much summing up<br>As it is reducing our life experiences to the essential<br>We don\u2019t try to hold on to the whole story<br>But we search for a memory<br>That we can fit into a pocket of our brain<br>And bring out again when we need to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What is the story<br>You\u2019re going to tell<br>After this experience is over?<br>What is the image, or sentence<br>You will hold on to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And the other learning from a memorial service<br>Is that not everyone has the same story<br>And that\u2019s OK<br>We didn\u2019t all have the same experience, exactly<br>And the experiences we shared didn\u2019t feel the same way to all of us<br>And we had different lessons we needed to learn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The satisfying part of a Memorial service<br>Is bringing all those different stories together<br>And getting a fuller picture of the person<br>Knowing that our story isn\u2019t the only story<br>Our truth, isn\u2019t the whole truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we come to the close of the interim<br>You might spend some time<br>Naming your story<br>What will you save<br>About this time between Rev. Mitra\u2019s departing<br>And Rev. Lissa\u2019s arriving?<br>And what will you allow now to slip away into the past?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">See you Tuesday, 1pm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wednesday, 70+groupMeets at 11:30amThis week\u2019s theme is \u201cfarewells\u201d This Sunday is our RE SundayOur Religious Education Director, Naomi YoshidaAnd the&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=758\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Storytelling<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[13,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dailymessage","category-writing"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=758"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":771,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758\/revisions\/771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=758"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=758"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=758"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}