{"id":725,"date":"2020-06-01T10:27:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T17:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=725"},"modified":"2020-05-26T10:28:00","modified_gmt":"2020-05-26T17:28:00","slug":"good-endings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=725","title":{"rendered":"Good Endings"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;And now comes the time to say goodbye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The close of our interim ministry (I mean yours and mine) is drawing near.&nbsp;&nbsp;My last Sunday in your pulpit will be June 21.&nbsp;&nbsp;We will use the coffee hour time after worship that day to recognize the work we did together and honor the contributions of many church members with our annual awards.&nbsp;&nbsp;I\u2019ll spend the last week of the month organizing files and cleaning out my office.&nbsp;&nbsp;The last day of my contract is June 30.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;This month, I\u2019m doing several things to finish up.&nbsp;&nbsp;This is my last column for the Advance.&nbsp;&nbsp;I wrote a lengthy Interim Ministry Appraisal for the UUA, which I will share with your Board of Trustees at their June 16 meeting.&nbsp;&nbsp;I\u2019ll also attend the Board retreat on June 6 to pass on institutional knowledge to your new leadership.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;For several weeks now I have been writing and collecting extensive documentation of the church.&nbsp;&nbsp;What are the groups?&nbsp;&nbsp;Who are the people?&nbsp;&nbsp;How does worship get organized?&nbsp;&nbsp;What meetings is the minister expected to attend?&nbsp;&nbsp;What are the unspoken culture and traditions that must be honored?&nbsp;&nbsp;My goal, by the middle of this month, is to create a reference for Lissa that tells all the stories and gives her a heads up on what she\u2019ll need to know to make a good start.&nbsp;&nbsp;I\u2019ll leave both a notebook of material as well as digital files.&nbsp;&nbsp;Of course, she\u2019ll need to read my reflections as mine but at least the documentation will let her know where she needs to start her investigations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;One further piece of helpful work is a covenant Lissa and I created to cover this last month of my interim ministry and the transition into her settled ministry.&nbsp;&nbsp;Our two guiding principles are \u201cgood endings make good beginnings\u201d and \u201cinformed but not involved.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first means that the focus of this last month of interim should be on making a gracious close for these two and a half years and not leaving anything undone that would linger into the next year.&nbsp;&nbsp;We have journeyed a long way together.&nbsp;&nbsp;Abrupt and unconsidered partings leave wounds.&nbsp;&nbsp;Let\u2019s well conclude our shared business before we turn our attention in separate directions to what comes next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The second guiding principle recognizes that while we are focused on ending a ministry, Lissa is preparing to begin.&nbsp;&nbsp;It\u2019s appropriate to keep Lissa informed of what you\u2019re doing and what you\u2019re planning, but don\u2019t yet ask her to attend meetings or offer opinions.&nbsp;&nbsp;She needs room to end her current ministry.&nbsp;&nbsp;And she isn\u2019t formally your minister until August 1.&nbsp;&nbsp;During July, you can be more in touch if you feel you need to, but I suggest, for both you and Lissa, that you consider July a sabbath month.&nbsp;&nbsp;Give yourselves a rest from the work of this church year before you dive into the excitement of the next.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It has been a pleasure to be your minister.&nbsp;&nbsp;We faced challenges together.&nbsp;&nbsp;We worked hard.&nbsp;&nbsp;We accomplished much.&nbsp;&nbsp;We leave some work unfinished, as does every ministry.&nbsp;&nbsp;I have confidence in your strength, in your vision, in your leaders.&nbsp;&nbsp;I trust your minds and admire your hearts.&nbsp;&nbsp;I have faith in your spirits.&nbsp;&nbsp;The church is healthy.&nbsp;&nbsp;The foundations are solid.&nbsp;&nbsp;You are capable of taking care of each other and doing good work in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will be out of sight in the coming year.&nbsp;&nbsp;But I will be watching, and praying, and cheering for you; eager to see where you take your church next; and proud, now, to be a part of your history.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;And now comes the time to say goodbye. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The close of our interim ministry (I mean yours and mine) is&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=725\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Good Endings<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[12,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-725","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-go-through","category-writing"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/725","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=725"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/725\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":726,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/725\/revisions\/726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=725"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=725"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=725"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}