{"id":713,"date":"2020-05-20T13:23:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T20:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=713"},"modified":"2020-05-27T21:04:44","modified_gmt":"2020-05-28T04:04:44","slug":"better-and-worse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rhmcd.com\/?p=713","title":{"rendered":"Better and Worse"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Budget<br>Board Approved last night<br>Request at the Town Hall Council, May 28<br>Approved at Congregational Meeting, May 31<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Montesorri School<br>Making Plans to re-open June 1<br>Board authorized CU&amp;A to prepare agreement<br>Based on CDC guidelines for child care centers<br>As always the school is responsible for child safety and must carry liability insurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Last regular meeting of current Board<br>New Trustees elected on May 31<br>Make plans for the new Board Retreat and Orientation June 6<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Termite Tenting<br>The church is being fumigated for termites starting today<br>Taking advantage of the church being closed<br>The process takes three days<br>We will have a security guard at the church throughout the process<br>Please stay away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Covenant between Rev. Lissa and myself<br>We agreed to a covenant yesterday<br>I have asked, and Lissa has agreed<br>That she give the congregation and I space in June<br>To end the current year<br>To end the interim ministry<br>To say our goodbyes and make a good ending<br>And to make a pause before your attention turns to the new year<br>And the settled minister<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A good ending should be the focus from now until the end of June<br>There will be time in July to make plans for August<br>And time in August, once Lissa begins,<br>To make plans for the church year that begins in September<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For June, Lissa and I agreed to follow the principle<br>Informed by not Involved<br>Feel free to share any minutes or documents<br>Add Lissa to your email distribution list<br>But Lissa should not attend meetings<br>And please don\u2019t invite her to join discussions<br>However, if there is some specific issue or question<br>Where you feel it\u2019s important to involve Lissa before June 30<br>Please speak to me and I can either get the answer you need<br>Or guide the interaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At last night\u2019s Board meeting<br>Several folks were talking about a webinar they had attended earlier that day<br>Sponsored by Church Mutual<br>Our insurance company<br>I didn\u2019t attend the webinar<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Michael Sallwasser described the webinar as mostly addressed<br>To churches that want to quickly get back to church life as normal<br>And the insurance companies urging caution<br>And explaining precautions<br>Like social distancing<br>And masks,<br>No choir<br>No mingling during coffee hour afterward<br>No hugging<br>And Michael pointed out that what we have now<br>Actually is a lot more fulfilling than that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I like that our church has figured out a way to do church<br>As best as possible during the current circumstances<br>And we\u2019re getting better all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I also know that the church we have now<br>Is in many ways not as satisfying as what we could do earlier<br>And it\u2019s important to acknowledge that<br>That\u2019s part of being a \u201cReality-based faith\u201d<br>Zoom meetings are not the same as in-person meetings<br>In some ways they are better<br>Like screen-sharing documents<br>But in other ways not<br>Like missing non-verbal clues<br>Zoom worship fulfills many of the needs of worship<br>And does some things better<br>Like making worship accessible to people who can\u2019t join in person<br>But in other ways falls short<br>Like missing a live choir<br>Or preaching to a screen and not getting reactions<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So what this means to me<br>Is that I\u2019m continuing to feel my emotions go all over the place<br>I\u2019m excited by creative solutions<br>And new ideas<br>But I\u2019m also grieving some things that were lost<br>I\u2019m making it work one day<br>And then I\u2019m a little depressed the next day<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So my spiritual counsel for today is<br>Feel what you feel<br>Don\u2019t feel that you have to make a brave face if you\u2019re feeling sad today<br>But if you feel yourself connecting too entirely to the negatives<br>Seek out the positives because they are there<br>Acknowledge the ambiguities of the situation<br>Notice your feelings<br>And notice how they change, from day to day<br>Accept that this is where we are<br>For now, but not always<br>Stay connected to reality<br>And know that reality changes<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">See you tomorrow at 1pm<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BudgetBoard Approved last nightRequest at the Town Hall Council, May 28Approved at Congregational Meeting, May 31 Montesorri SchoolMaking Plans to&hellip; 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